Relationship Between A Middle Age Woman - 2011 Words

Relationship Paper As a middle age woman I had many relationships during the course of my life. The majority of them I did not actually chose, they just happened, such as my family relationships where I was basically born into and my professional relationships that happened only as a result of the circumstances. I also had my share of relationships that I actually had the opportunity to choose to be in and amazingly they are the ones that I seem to have more trouble with, my friendships and especially my romantic relationships. With most of my past romantic relationships once the relationship ended, even though I have been able to maintain friendly relationships with most of my past romantic partners, I really did not need to keep any†¦show more content†¦In a period of 6 months we found ourselves rushing through the intensifying ,integrating and bonding stage of the relationship since we started dating and publically presenting ourselves as a couple. About a year into the r elationship we moved in together and 6 months later I got pregnant and we decided to get married. At the begging communication seem to be wonderful as with most of the relationships at their early stages. We were polite, respectful and loving when we talked to each other. It was easy to express our needs and concerns. We did everything to show that we care about the other and that we were committed to the relationship. Our communication started to deteriorate fast as we started facing the reality that we were not emotionally and financially ready to be married and specially to have a child. Our relationship was mostly influenced by appearance and physical attractiveness. Sure at the beginning we thought we had a lot of things in common but we were only similar superficially. We had mutual friends, like the same activities, music and food however in a deeper level we did not give the relationship enough time to find out if we were really similar in a deeper level. Our social, educati onal and economic differences starting to become apparent as we faced the problems of the everyday live. We could not complement each other on anyway and that showed in